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Book 1 Unit 3
Getting along with others
Welcome to the unit
Lead-in(Let’s enjoy a music)
What is the song about?
Have you heard this music?
What is a friend?
We loved to stay with them, sharing unforgettable moments with them and doing what we loved together and so on.
Lead-in
The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, nor the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when he discovers that someone else believes in him and is willing to trust him.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson
拉尔夫·沃尔多·爱默生
glory n. 光辉，光荣，荣誉
outstretched adj. 伸开的；扩张的
companionship n. 陪伴，情谊，友谊
spiritual inspiration 精神鼓舞
友谊的光辉并不在于伸出的援手或者善意的微笑，也不在于陪伴之时的快乐。而是在发现自己被他人所信任时，精神上所受到的鼓舞。
Share more quotations about friendship with you.
A friend in need is a friend indeed.
患难见真情。
The friendship between gentlemen appears indifferent but is pure like water.
君子之交淡如水。
A true friend is a soul born in two bodies
真正的朋友，是一个灵魂孕育在两个躯体里
Have a free talk about friends.
Q1: Do you have any good friends?
Q2 : What does FRIENDSHIP mean to you?
hug 拥抱
smile 微笑
comfort
安慰，舒适
trust 信任
loyalty 忠诚
companionship 陪伴
友谊对你来说意味着什么？
Watch a video and summarize the problems about friendships.
Three senior high school students, Bill, Jane and Harry are talking about their friendship problems. Watch a video and summarize their problems.
Listening tip 听力建议:
Remember to take notes.
记得记笔记
Focus on the topic sentence.
注意主题句
Leave out the detailed information.
忽略细节信息
No man is an island, entire of itself.
We all long for the company of friends.
没有人是一座孤立的岛屿。
我们都渴望有朋友作伴。
Bill’s problem
Bill’s problem
Bill and his best friend do not share the same interest now.
Past:
We used to be crazy about comics, and we always read ________ books together.
Now:
Whenever I suggest reading a comic book, he always _________.
comic
disagrees
Jane’s problem
Jane’s problem
Jane misses her best friend from junior high school.
Past:
We used to play together, and _______ everything with each other.
Now:
We _______ see each other, and we are both busy.
share
seldom
Harry’s problem
Harry’s problem
I _____ my new school. My teachers and fellow students are fantastic. I have every hope of ________ ________with the other boys. But, I dare not. I’m ________ they don’t like me, and that they would laugh at me.
love
Harry is too shy to make friends with the other boys in his class.
making
friends
afraid
Let’s watch a video!
_________________________________________________________________
He and his best friend no longer share the same interests.
Bill’s problem:
Jane’s problem:
_________________________________________________________________
She misses her best friend from junior high school.
Harry’s problem:
_________________________________________________________________
He is too shy to make friends with other boys in his class.
Q: What advice can you give to them?
2.Give some advice to the students.
develop some other hobbies 培养一些其他爱好
have a frank talk with his friend 和他的朋友坦率地交谈
keep in touch with her friend on social media
和他的朋友在社交媒体上保持联系
meet her friend in person 亲自见见她的朋友
be brave enough to say hi to his classmates
勇敢地向他的同学打招呼
Pre-reading
读前活动
Lead-in
What is most important in making friends?
communication
沟通、交流
trust
信任
company
陪伴
common interests
共同的兴趣
Friendship
Two friends sit on a
friendship boat.
The boat of friendship
sank at once.
Lead-in
?
Let’s answer the question!
Who would you like to turn to for help if you have problems with friends? Why?
如果你和朋友之间有问题，你会向谁寻求帮助?为什么?
Parents
Other friends
... ...
Online strangers
The qualities of a person who cannot be a friend : 不能成为朋友的人的品质:
impolite
不礼貌的
tricky
狡猾的，诡计多端的
selfish 自私的
mean
刻薄的 吝啬的
dishonest 不诚实的
lazy
懒惰的
narrow-minded
心胸狭窄的
bad-tempered
易怒的，脾气坏的
noisy
吵闹的
impatient
没有耐心的
Please advise!
1.What could “on the rocks” in the title possibly mean?
in trouble /
in danger
Read for title & structure
陷入困境/
在危险中
2.What is the structure of this passage?
Read for title & structure
give advice
Forum exchange 论坛交流
Online forum 线上论坛
Basic elements for a online forum:
线上论坛的基本元素
ID for logging in
A post for giving your questions and doubts
Your attitude to the post such as a thumbs-up
Comments as advices or suggestions
登录ID
一个供你提出问题和疑虑的帖子
你对帖子的态度如竖起大拇指/点赞
作为意见或建议的评论
Forum & Post
This is a place for sharing information and discussions.
这是一个分享信息和讨论的地方。
Post
Profile photo
The time you posted
Poster’s name
You can share your information, discussions or problems here.
你可以在这里分享你的信息、讨论或问题。
Reply 1
The time he/she replied
Reply 2

Replier’s name
Learn to understand the forum exchange.
You may get replies here.
你可以在这里得到回复。
Reading
Friendship on the rocks: please advise!
Amy
Monday 12/10 9:13 p.m.
My best friend and I have been close for eight years. When I was an awkward primary school student, she was the popular girl who was willing to make friends with me. Since then, a close friendship has grown between us and she’s been almost like a sister to me. Whether we’re walking to school, doing homework or just hanging out at the weekend, we’re hardly out of each other’s sight. But last Saturday, she broke my heart, and I’m still picking up the pieces.
hang out闲荡，常去某处
hang up挂断电话；搁置，拖延
hang on别挂电话；坚持下去;握住不放
out of one’s sight 脱离某人的视线
收拾心情
自从
be willing to 乐意做...
反：unwilling
八年来，我和我最要好的朋友一直特别亲密。那时，我是个笨手笨脚的小学生，而她这个备受欢迎的女孩愿意和我做朋友。从那时起，我们之间发展了亲密的友谊，并且对我来说，她几乎和姐妹一样。不论是去上学、做作业，还是周末出去玩儿，我们俩几乎都形影不离。可是上周六，她让我伤心了，我到现在还在收拾心情。
Reading
Our original plan was to see a film at the cinema that afternoon. But in the morning, my friend posted a message on social media saying she had a cold. When I called her, she said she might not be able to make it to the cinema. “Don’t worry,” I said. “Get some rest. We can wait till you get better.”
译文
我们原先计划那天下午去电影院看电影。但早晨我朋友在社交媒体上发了一条信息，说她感冒了。我打电话过去，她说她也许不能去看电影了。“别担心，”我说，“休息一下吧。我们可以等你好起来再去。”
make it能够出席
make up for补偿，弥补
make up编造，化妆，和解，讲和
make for 促成，向....移动
发布
Reading
Today, however, I received a horrible surprise. A classmate told me she had seen my friend chatting with another girl in a café on Saturday afternoon. How stupid I was! My friend’s “illness” was a complete lie! Instead of recovering at home, she was out having fun with someone else.
译文
可是今天，我惊呆了。一位同学告诉我，她周六下午在咖啡厅看见我朋友在和另一个女孩聊天。我太傻了！她所谓的“生病”是彻头彻尾的谎话。她并没有在家养病，而是出去和别人玩的开心了。
"see sb doing" 看到某人正在做某事，强调瞬间动作；
"see sb do" 看到某人做某事，强调看到了整个过程
而不是,相反
sb.和某人玩的开心
Reading
I was so angry that I avoided her during school all day, and I still don’t feel like responding to any of her online messages. The stress of this situation is killing me, and I’m at a loss what to do next.
译文
我非常地生气以至于一整天我在学校都躲着她，到现在也不想回复她网上发过来的任何消息。这种情况带来的压力让我难受死了，我不知道接下来该怎么办。
feel like+doing... 想要做...
so...that... 如此...以至于...
so that 以便，为了
1.Read Para.1 and answer the questions.
Q1: How long have Amy and Jenny been close friends?
Q2: How close are they?
Eight years.
“almost like a sister to me”
“hardly ever out of each other’s sight”
Read Para. 2-4 and complete the table.
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Event
Feeling
They planned to 1._____________
on Saturday afternoon.
On Saturday morning
They couldn’t 2.________because of Jenny’s 3.__________.
On Saturday afternoon
Jenny was seen 4.____________ with
another girl in a café.
Today
(Monday)
Amy received a 5._________________
and 6._________ Jenny all day.
see a film
make it
illness
chatting
horrible surprise
avoided
excited
happy
sorry
worried
angry
stressed
at a loss
surprised
How have Amy's feelings changed?
Sat. afternoon
Jenny said she was ill and might not be able to make it to the cinema.
Jenny was out having fun with someone else.
Amy received a horrible surprise. She thought Jenny lied to her. She avoided Jenny and ignored her online messages.
Before
Now
Amy and Jenny have been close for eight years.
The stress of the situation is killing her. She is at a loss what to do next.
happy
worried
surprised
angry
heartbroken
stressed
confused
Sat. morning
Monday
Reading
Cindy
Monday 12/10 9:52 p.m.
I’m so sorry! But this friendship is worth saving: eight years is a long time! Don’t be so quick to judge your friend. Perhaps she knows she’s in the wrong and wants to apologize, or maybe she has a simple explanation for her behaviour. In any case, find an opportunity to have a full and frank talk with her. Listen to what she has to say, and be sure to explain how you feel. I’m sure you can solve this problem together.
vi. 道歉，谢罪
apologize to sb. for (doing) sth 因（做）某事向某人道歉
apology n. 道歉，谢罪
be worth doing...值得做...
go wrong 出差错
[
]
为你感到抱歉！但是这份友情是值得挽回的：八年真久！别这么快就给你的朋友下结论。或许她知道自己错了，想向你道歉，又或许她可以明白地解释自己的行为。无论如何，找个机会和她深入、坦诚地谈谈。听听她怎么说，你也一定要说出自己的感受。我相信，你们一定能一起解决这个问题的。
Reading
David
Tuesday 13/10 8:11 p.m.
I definitely understand how you feel. I also had a friend whom I trusted a lot. When I found out that I was tricked by him, I was really hurt and let go of our friendship. I know you value your friendship and want your friend to value it equally. However, if your friend ignores your feelings or makes you suffer, it’s time to rethink your relationship. Talk to her and decide whether this friendship is still important to you. It’s sad to move on, but you have to accept that friends come and go in life.
v.欺骗，欺诈；n. 花招，戏法
trick sb into doing sth. 哄骗某人做某事
trick sb out of sth. 骗取某人某物
play a trick/tricks on sb. 取笑某人
make fun of sb. 取笑某人
vt.忽视，对……不理会；
【拓展】
ignorance n. 无知，愚昧
ignorant adj. 无知的，愚昧的
你的心情我感同身受。我也曾经有一个特别信任的朋友。我发现自己被他欺骗之后，真的好伤心，我放弃了那份友谊。我知道你有多么珍视你们的友谊，并且希望你朋友也同样珍重它。可是，如果你朋友不在乎你的感受，让你难过，那就该反思一下你们的关系了。跟她谈谈，再决定这份友谊对你来说是不是仍然重要。放手固然令人伤感，但你必须接受这点——生命中，朋友就是有聚有散。
Read for details
What are the pieces of advice from Cindy and David?
save the friendship
rethink the friendship and if necessary, let go of it
Read the forum exchange and complete the chart below.
Saturday morning:
Amy’s friend said she was ill and might not be able to make it to the cinema.
Cindy:
(3)______________________
_________________________
Amy’s problem
Saturday afternoon:
(1)__________________
_____________________
Monday:
(2)__________________
_____________________
Advice given
David:
(4)________________________
___________________________
Amy’s friend was out having fun with someone else.
Amy received a horrible surprise.
Save the friendship because
eight years is a long time.
Rethink this friendship and if necessary, move on.
Cindy
David
Don’t be so quick to judge.
Have a full and frank talk.
Explain how you feel.
What is Cindy’s / David’s advice?
Talk to her and make a decision.
If necessary, accept the reality
and let go of the friendship.
COMMUNICATION
沟通 交流
Similarities 相同点
and
differences 不同点
This friendship is worth saving.
It’s time to rethink the relationship.
Have a talk with her friend.
Whose advice do you prefer?
你更喜欢谁的建议
What advice can you offer Amy?
你能给艾米提什么建议？
Further thinking 深度思考
I'm so sorry! But this friendship is worth saving: eight years is a long time! Don't be so quick to judge your friend. Perhaps she knows she's in the wrong and wants to apologize, or maybe she has a simple explanation for her behaviour. In any case, find an opportunity to have a full and frank talk with her. Listen to what she has to say, and be sure to explain how you feel. I'm sure you can solve this problem together.
I definitely understand how you feel. I also had a friend whom I trusted a lot. When I found out that I was tricked by him, I was really hurt and let go of our friendship. I know you value your friendship and want your friend to value it equally. However, if your friend ignores your feelings or makes you suffer, it’s time to rethink your relationship. Talk to her and decide whether this friendship is still important to you. It’s sad to move on, but you have to accept that friends come and go in life.
How can we give advice?
1. show your understanding
表达你的理解
2. give advice
(short and simple)
提供建议
(简短而简单)
3. show confidence in them
对他们表现出信心
use imperative sentences (祈使句)
What helpful advice can you offer Amy?
Keep calm;
Have an honest communication;
Try to understand the situation from her friend’s point of view;
Put herself in her friend’s shoes;
Solve the problem together;
Turn to your teachers for help;
...
What lessons can we learn to maintain friendship?
1. Jenny lied to Amy, so Amy was heartbroken.
Lesson 1._____________
2. Amy avoided Jenny, but it was not a good way to solve
her problem.
Lesson 2._____________
3. Friends come and go in life. Not every friend deserves to
be cherished.
Lesson 3.______________
Don’t lie to our friends.
Have a face to face talk.
Let go of the past and move on.
1、 How did Amy view her friend before?
2、 What did Amy and her friend plan to do last Saturday afternoon?
3、 How did Amy learn that her friend went to a café?
4、What does Cindy mean by “her behaviour” in line 24?
5、In what case is it time to rethink a friendship, according to David?
Understanding the detail
Amy thought her friend was almost like a sister to her.
She wanted to see a film with her friend.
A classmate told Amy she had seen Cindy chatting with another girl in a café on Saturday afternoon.
Amy’s friend said she was too ill to see the film with Amy but went to a café with another girl anyway.
If one’s friend ignores their feelings or makes them suffer.
Amy
Monday 12/10 9:13 p.m.
My best friend and I have been close for eight years. When I was an awkward primary school student, she was the popular girl who was willing to make friends with me. Since then, a close friendship has grown between us and she’s been almost like a sister to me. Whether we’re walking to school, doing homework or just hanging out at the weekend, we’re hardly out of each other’s sight. But last Saturday, she broke my heart, and I’m still picking up the pieces.
Paragraph 1
Analyze the key points of the text


定语从句
be willing to do 乐意做
出去逛
时间状语从句
Our original plan was to see a film at the cinema that afternoon. But in the morning, my friend posted a message on social media saying she had a cold. When I called her, she said she might not be able to make it to the cinema. “Don’t worry,” I said. “Get some rest. We can wait till you get better.”
Paragraph 2
make it 准时到达
省略了that的宾语从句
时间状语从句
Today, however, I received a horrible surprise. A classmate told me she had seen my friend chatting with another girl in a café on Saturday afternoon. How stupid I was! My friend’s “illness” was a complete lie! Instead of recovering at home, she was out having fun with someone else.
Paragraph 3
省略that的宾语从句
主语
谓语
宾语
宾补
I was so angry that I avoided her during school all day, and I still don’t feel like responding to any of her online messages. The stress of this situation is killing me, and I’m at a loss what to do next.
Paragraph 4
so...that... 如此...以至于
茫然
There is a plot line in Amy’s telling of her problem. Usually a plot line is made up of five elements:
艾米讲述她的问题有一条主线。通常一条情节线由五个元素组成:
Careful-reading
setting 背景
1
rising action 情节发展
2
falling action
情节转折延伸
4
3
climax
高潮
5
ending
结局
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Details in the plot line
Setting
Amy and her best friend have been close ___________________, but Amy found her friend _________________ last Saturday.
Rising action
Amy and her bestie planned to __________, but Amy __________the appointment due to her friend's claim of ______________.
Climax
On Monday a classmate told Amy that her friend was seen_________________________ last Saturday afternoon.
Falling action
Amy was _______ and ________ her friend during school all day. Amy felt __________ and _______________________ and got two replies of suggestions.
Ending 结局
Not given in the text.
for eight years
broke her heart
see a film
cancelled
having a cold
chatting with another girl
angry
avoided
at a loss
asked for advice online
Para. 1
Para. 2
Para. 3
Para. 4
Futher reading
How did the story develop step by step?
人物
背景
事件
问题
解决办法
Monday 12/10 9:52 p.m.
I’m so sorry! But this friendship is worth saving: eight years is a long time! Don’t be so quick to judge your friend. Perhaps she knows she’s in the wrong and wants to apologize, or maybe she has a simple explanation for her behaviour. In any case, find an opportunity to have a full and frank talk with her. Listen to what she has to say, and be sure to explain how you feel. I’m sure you can solve this problem together.
宾语从句
宾语从句
...be worth doing ……值得做
Tuesday 13/10 8:11 p.m.
I definitely understand how you feel. I also had a friend whom I trusted a lot. When I found out that I was tricked by him, I was really hurt and let go of our friendship. I know you value your friendship and want your friend to value it equally. However, if your friend ignores your feelings or makes you suffer, it’s time to rethink your relationship. Talk to her and decide whether this friendship is still important to you. It’s sad to move on, but you have to accept that friends come and go in life.
真正的主语
定语从句
=give up 放弃/放手
时间状语从句
宾语从句
条件状语从句
it’s time to do ... 该做……的时候了
形式主语
宾语从句
Analysis of Long Sentences
1. The forum exchange below includes a post written by Amy, a teenage girl who had a problem with her best friend Jenny, and two replies. (Directions)
因为_________, 这是一个_____________(简单句/复合句/复杂句）。
主句的谓语是________，written by Amy是作句子的_____________________，其中Amy, a teenage girl 是Amy 的__________(宾补，主补，同位语）。
此句子包括一个_______从句，修饰________________ ，关系代词为_______。
含有从句
复杂句
includes
后置定语，修饰 post
同位语
定语
a teenage girl
who
Since then, a close friendship has grown between us and she's been almost like a sister to me. (L3-4)
since,译作“自......以来”。表示的时间往往是从过去的某一点时间一直延续到说话的现在时间，因此常与现在完成时态连用。
现在
过去
have / has done
将来
1. He _________(be) here since 2006.
2. I _________(be) here since five years ago.
3. I ______________(see) her since I left Nanjing.
4.It ___________( be) two years since I became a postgraduate.
拓展和归纳练习
has been
have been
have not seen
has been/is
1) since + 过去一个时间点
2) since + 一段时间+ ago
3) since + 从句
4) It is + 一段时间+since 从句
与现在完成时连用
What conclusion can we draw?
Whether we're walking to school, doing homework or just hanging out at the weekend, we're hardly out of each other's sight. (L5)
不论是去上学、做作业，还是周末出去玩，我们俩几乎形影不离
whether...or... 引导让步状语从句
(1)whether...or...引导让步状语从句，表示“不论……还是……”。
(2)whether...or not...无论……是否……
(3)引导让步状语从句的连词：although、though、as、while、even if、 even though、疑问词＋ever、no matter＋疑问词
单句语法填空/完成句子(1)_____________________ Mary loved flowers, neither she nor her husband was known as a gardener. (2021·浙江6月卷改编)(2)It was tiring work, but I looked forward to the pay, even ________ I wasn't sure how much it would amount to.(2021·浙江6月卷改编)(3)________ you're looking at wallpaper or paint, the time, effort and relative expense put into it are significant.(2018·全国Ⅰ卷改编)
Although/Though/While
if/though
Whether
eight years是强调一段持续的时光，表示一个
整体数量，谓语动词用单数。
同样，表示距离、重量、金钱等整体概念的词
作主语也如此。
1)第二个句子中的谓语动词为什么用单数？
思考
But this friendship is worth saving: eight years______a long time.(L18)
is
翻译下面两个句子：
①对于这么薄的一本书，十美元足够了。
_________________________________________.
②六公里对于一个七岁的孩子来说是一段很长的距离。
_________________________________________
思考：
Six kilometers is a long distance for a child of seven.
Ten dollars is enough for such a thin book.
5. However，if your friend regularly ignores your feelings or makes you suffer，it's time to rethink your relationship.(L27-28)
句中it's time to rethink ...为it's time to do...结构，意为“是做某事的时候了”。
然而，如果你的朋友经常忽视你的感受或者让你痛苦，那是时候重新考虑你们的关系了。
1. It's time for sb.to do sth.意为“是某人做某事的时候了”
2. It's time for sb. to do... 也可以改为从句形式，此时从句用虚拟语气：

3. It's time for sth.也表示“是做某事的时候了”，但这个句型中介词for的后面只能是表示物的名词，说明所要做的事情。
It's time that sb should do sth.
It's time that sb. did sth.
【拓展】
6. Talk to her and decide whether this friendship is still important to you. (L28-29)
句中的whether能否换成if？
在宾语从句中，大多数情况下，whether 和 if 是可以互换的
拓展与归纳练习--用whether / if 填空。
1. I don't know ________ or not they will come.
2. Can you tell me ________to go swimming after supper?
3. We discussed _________ we should close the shop.
4. I worry about ________ he will be angry with me.
5. _______ it is right I am not sure.
whether
whether
whether
whether
Whether
1) 在宾语从句中，与or not 直接连用时只能用whether。
2) 在宾语从句中，后接不定式时只能用whether。
3) 前面的动词是discuss时只能用whether。
4) 在宾语从句中，前面是介词时只能用whether。
5) 表强调将宾语从句提前时只能用whether。
What conclusion can we draw?
B1
Jenny is talking to her classmate Carl about Amy. Complete the conversation with the correct forms of the words and phrases in the box below.
apologize ignore horrible in the wrong
recover respond let go of at a loss
Carl: Hi, Jenny! It looks like you’re under a lot of stress. What’s wrong?
Jenny: I feel (1) __________. Amy misunderstood me. She is really angry and I’m (2) __________ what to do.
Carl: What happened between you two?
Jenny: Amy felt like watching a film last Saturday but the plan was cancelled because I was ill. I spent the morning (3) __________ at home. Then I got a call from a friend whom I hadn’t contacted for a long time. She asked me out for coffee.
Carl: So you went to meet her?
Jenny: Yes, I did. When Amy found out, she exploded with anger. I wanted to explain, but she just kept (4) __________ me. I sent her several messages, but she never (5) __________. I really don’t want to (6) __________ our friendship. Do you think I should (7) __________?
Carl: No, you aren’t (8) ___________. But you should talk to her face to face. Amy is a generous person. She’ll understand.
horrible
at a loss
recovering
ignoring
responded
let go of
apologize
in the wrong
B2
“Friend” and “friendship” appear in the forum exchange as part of different collocations. Read the examples below and add more collocations.
Learning collocations
A collocation is a group of words which commonly appear together. Using collocations will make your speech or writing more natural. Read English books, watch English films or listen to English news, and you will learn more collocations.
搭配是一组经常一起出现的单词。使用搭配会使你的说话或写作更自然。读英语书，看英语电影或听英语新闻，你会学到更多的搭配。
Tip
B2
“Friend” and “friendship” appear in the forum exchange as part of different collocations. Read the examples below and add more collocations.
friendship
friend
v. + friendship
friendship + v.
adj. + friendship
adj. + friend
v. + friend
save a friendship
a friendship grows
a close friendship
my best friend
make friends
build a friendship 建立友谊, maintain a friendship 维持友谊, value a friendship 珍惜友谊
a friendship begins/starts 友谊开始,
a friendship ends 友谊结束
a real/ true friendship真正的友谊,
a lasting friendship 持久的友谊, a lifelong friendship 一生的友谊
a dear friend 亲爱的朋友, a real/true friend 真正的朋友, a special friend 特别的朋友, a new/old friend 新/老朋友,
become friends 成为朋友, stay friends 做朋友,
lose a friend 失去朋友
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